What to Wear & How to Show Up: Simple Etiquette for Lifestyle & Wedding Photographers
Being a photographer isn’t just about showing up with a camera—it’s about being part of someone’s moment. Whether I’m capturing a casual lifestyle session or documenting a wedding day, how I dress and carry myself matters just as much as the photos I take.
Lifestyle Shoots: Be You, But Practical
For lifestyle shoots, I lean into comfort with personality. I go for clean, neutral outfits that feel like me—think comfy jeans, a cute top, or simple layers that don’t restrict movement. Nothing too flashy, but definitely not boring. I want to blend in enough to make my clients feel relaxed, while still representing my style as a creative. The goal is to be approachable, confident, and ready to move around as needed.
Weddings: You’re Not the Guest—But You’re Close
Weddings are a whole different story. It’s still okay to be yourself, but you’ve got to dial it up a notch. I usually go for all black or muted colors, nothing flashy or loud. Comfort is still key, but this time it’s paired with respect. I want to be taken seriously, move quietly, and never be a distraction. If there’s a dress code (or cultural traditions), I check ahead so I can show up informed and respectful.
Your Look = Your Brand
How you present yourself tells people a lot—before you even speak. Are you calm and cozy? Edgy and artistic? Clean and minimal? The way you dress should feel aligned with your brand and shooting style. It’s not about trying to impress—it’s about consistency. The vibe you bring visually often sets the tone for the shoot.
A Quick Note on Etiquette
This part matters just as much as your outfit:
Be early.
Stay low-key but helpful.
Don’t crowd people or hover during emotional moments.
Know when to give direction, and when to step back and observe.
Footwear Is Everything
You’ll be on your feet for hours—sometimes sprinting across venues or crouching in awkward spots. Good shoes are worth the investment. I bring backups if I know I’ll be out all day. Stylish and supportive is the sweet spot.
In short: bring your personality, but don’t forget where you are. When you dress and act with intention, it shows your clients that you respect them, their space, and their memories—and that goes a long way.
